Considering Divorce? Start Here.
 
Don’t go into divorce unprepared—especially if you’re planning to mediate.

Our Pre-Divorce Guide is a step-by-step resource created by a professional divorce mediator to help you confidently navigate the early stages of separation without unnecessary stress, confusion, or costly mistakes.
 
Whether you're just starting to explore your options or ready to move forward, this guide will show you exactly how to:
 
Emotionally prepare for the transition
Organize your finances (with checklists!)
Approach co-parenting with clarity and care
Understand the divorce mediation process
Know when—and how—to talk to a lawyer
Avoid common (and costly) pitfalls
 
✔️ Peaceful. Practical. Professional.
 
Unlike generic divorce advice, this guide is tailored for couples who want to handle divorce amicably, efficiently, and out of court. It’s the same insight and structure we use with real mediation clients—now available to help you start strong.
 
What’s Inside:
 
31-page Pre-Divorce Guide: Preparing for Divorce Through Mediation
 
Chapter 1: Introduction
A message from your mediator and what to expect from this guide.
 
Chapter 2: Understanding Divorce Mediation
What it is, how it works, and why it's different from litigation.
 
Chapter 3: Is Mediation Right for You?
How to know if mediation is a good fit—and when it might not be.
 
Chapter 4: Preparing Emotionally
Grief, expectations, and staying grounded through the process.
 
Chapter 5: Getting Organized
What documents to gather and how to get financially prepared.
 
Chapter 6: What to Expect in Mediation
Step-by-step overview of the full mediation process.
 
Chapter 7: Kids First
Co-parenting, parenting plans, and protecting your children’s stability.
 
Chapter 8: Financial Considerations
Property division, child support, alimony, and long-term planning.
 
Chapter 9: Talking to a Lawyer
When legal advice helps—and how to use it without going to court.
 
Chapter 10: Common Mistakes to Avoid
How to protect your progress, your peace, and your priorities.
 
Chapter 11: After the Agreement
What happens after mediation, including court filing and final steps.
 
Chapter 12: Closing Thoughts
Encouragement, reminders, and next steps from your mediator.
 
Bonus Tools:
Mediation Roadmap
Financial Prep Checklist
Parenting Plan Conversation Prompts